Be willing to sacrifice.
Never underestimate the power and grace that will come your way when you make sacrifices. Fasting* is a great way to offer your body back to the Lord. When you are in the car, turn off the radio once in a while and spend time in silence or in prayer. Tune into the needs of those around you and practice sacrificing for them as you learn to will the good of another. The more you learn to "go without" having things your own way, the more you will be going "with" God over yourself.
* Fasting from food should be done in moderation so that it does not become unhealthy. Consider fasting from other things that may have too big a place in your life, such as from a specific form of entertainment (TV, Facebook, etc.). This will allow you more time to consider the good of both yourself and others.
Virtue Challenge: Put others first, before yourself